2010年3月14日星期日

The Art Of Listening

Some with more,Wall carri our burden.Inflatable Advertising some with less grace. We all, without exception, have our problems. I might be suffer from my overweight, my appar inabl to control my food intake. Now, even though that is a condit share by million around the globe, it still is my own, person problem, and I feel alon with it. Nobodi realli understand me.

most peopl know that,Life is difficult. Now. at least those who have manag to grow up and turn into respons adults. And there seem to be a lot of tool and techniqu for those who, in spite of that fundament truth, have not given up to try and eas the burden on themselv and on others. There is a lot of suffer around us. And it doe not seem to depend on the countri which I happen to visit, or the type of peopl I meet. It doe not seem to depend on the affluenc or the poverti which prevail in thi or that society. It doe not depend on the time of day, nor on the weather. It just seem to be there.

like celebr a saint s dai or demonstr against the government. Those peopl wear almost ident expressions,W can see it on the face of peopl in a crowd. I'm not refer to peopl who have come togeth for a common purpose. becaus thei ar share ident thought and objectives.

at the bu stop,I mean peopl on the street. wait in line in the supermarket. Peopl walk or travel home from work, wait for the traffic light to turn green.

make them realli feel part of the crowd'. Thei ar essenti alone,Ther is no common caus that connect them. share time and space with other human that happen to be in the same place. And there is veri littl social interaction.

that you want something. You might want to know of that person where the next public telephon booth is becaus you forgot to recharg your cell phone. You might want to convinc your spous that tonight it would be so much better to stai home instead of go to the movies. That telephon call to your brother,Talk to someon almost alwai mean that you have an agenda. where you sai virtual noth but show him by place that call that you ar sorri for what happen last night.

have an agenda,A nd. we control our bodi language, which includ our facial expression, tone of voice, the wai we gesture, etc. We are, in a veri real sense, acting, want to make the right impression.

therefor there seem to be no need to control the facial expression. And it can be a littl bit frighten when you look long and close enough,Peopl in an anonym crowd do not do that. Thei do not wear a mask; here 'what you see is what you get'. Thei do not feel observed. can it not?

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